This is not a blog post about losing weight or disguising your extra pounds. I am not going to tell you how to lose ten pounds in ten minutes or how to reduce the size of your waist in minutes a day. This is a post about loving your body the way it is now, embracing the shape that you have, and working it to your advantage.Over at my blog Hems for Her, I show everyday women how I dress. I have run the weight gamut from thin to thick and everything in between. When I got pregnant, I was in the best shape of my life. I had just lost 55 pounds; I was working out 4-5 times a week; I looked great and felt great. After the baby, my body was different. My boobs and belly were bigger; I had no time to work out. I started a stressful job, and the pounds piled on. However, I have grown to love and appreciate my new fuller figure.
The most important part of looking good and feeling good is confidence! That’s the first thing you should put on everyday! If you don’t believe you look good, then how do you expect anyone else to? Rock it and flaunt it! By identifying your body shape and learning what kind of clothing is most flattering, you will have the confidence to feel beautiful and stylish at any size!
First things first: There’s no such thing as one size fits all! I am going to talk about the four most common body types, but they are not all encompassing; so if you don’t see “your body” among these shapes, don’t be discouraged. Pick the body type that most closely resembles yours and go with that!
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Apples
What they look like:
- Overall “round” shape
- Weight appears all over upper body
- No defined waist, some “love handles”
- Larger waist and bust
- Shapely legs
- Defined shoulders
- Balance larger upper half and slender legs
- Define your waist
- Show off great legs
Wear:
- A-line and asymetrical skirts
- Body-skimming tunic-length shirts and sweaters
- Structured jackets and blazers
- Wide-leg jeans and pants
- Empire and maxi dresses with lower neckline
- V-neck and embellished neck tops


eloquii: wide leg jeans, $89.90; v-neck belted tunic, $46.90; scroll print peasant blouse, $29.90; v-neck belted tunic, $49.90; pleated sleeve cowl cweater, $16.99; a-line skirt, $68.90; boyfriend jacket, $79.99; two in one belted box pleat dress, $108; pleated cowl neck dress, $59.90
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PearsWhat they look like:
- Small busts
- Defined waists
- Heavier hips and thighs (“bottom-heavy”)
- Narrow shoulders, slim arms, defined waist
- Balance slimmer upper body with heavy bottom and legs
- Add width to shoulders and bust
Wear:
- Patterned tops
- Knee-length skirts: a-line or pencil
- Wrap tops or dresses
- Straight leg jeans and pants
- Pretty details on tops: ruffles, ruching, cowl neck, etc.



eloquii: straight leg pants, $79.90; plaid peasant top, $29.90; chiffon ruffle front shirt, $49.90; keyhole ruffle front shell, $49.90; eloquii ruched cuff bateau sweater, $24.99; below the knee crepe skirt, $69.90; gathered drape sleeve jacket, $138; printed tank dress, $110; two in one jaquard dress, $22.99; strapless party dress, $118
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Bananas
What they look like:
- Boxy/rectangular shape
- Very little definition, weight spread evenly between bust, waist, and hips
- Bust and shoulders same width as hips
- Small or medium bust
- Slim legs and arms
- Flat butt
Goals:
- Add the illusion of curves
- Define waistline
- Show off slim arms and legs
- Flared/boot-cut jeans and pants
- Tops with details: ruffles, ruching, etc.
- Pencil skirts or full skirts
- Belts or belted tops and jackets
- Dresses with structure: full skirts, defined waists
eloquii: straight leg pant, $79.90; soft bow blouse, $29.90; banded halter neck top, $49.90; ruffle shell, $46.90; sleeveless ruffle neck top, $44.90; pencil skirt, $44.90; belted ruffle collar jacket, $128; dolman sleeve drop waist dress, $98; faux wrap dress, $98
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HourglassWhat they look like:
- Full bust and full hips
- Clearly defined waist (at least 8" smaller than bust and hips)
- May be top or bottom heavy
- Weight evenly distributed between bust and hips
Goals:
- Considered “ideal” body shape, but very uncommon
- Show off shape: don’t hide it under baggy layers
- Slim neck and chest area
Wear:
- Flared/boot-cut pants and jeans
- V-neck and scoop neck tops (with camisole underneath if you are nervous about cleavage)
- Halter-style dresses
- Belted jackets and tops
eloquii: bootleg pant, $79.90; wrap front sweater, $19.99; two button ruched sleeve kacket, $108; cable v-neck sweater, $22.99; two in one cap sleeve dress, $118; printed knit wrap dress, $89.90; cowl drape top, $14.99; tulip skirt, $64.90; 3/4 sleeve shawl collar jacket, $138







My shape is that I'm pretty thin, but I have a large chest, making it difficult to not look like a cartoon character is certain clothing. And it's important for me to look modest. One tough item is horizontal stripes on top, but I find ways around it, by layering. Have a look at this:
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Thanks for the tips!
ReplyDeleteI've never heard of the "banana" shape and that's what I am! I was always confused when I read about body types because I never felt like I was an "apple" "pear" or "hourglass" :) Great post!
ReplyDeleteVery helpful- thank you! I thought I was always an apple shape, but from the above article, looks like I fall under hourglass.
ReplyDeleteThese are excellent tips. There is no such thing as an "ideal" size!
ReplyDeleteKeep in mind that accessorizing an outfit with tights can create a streamlined look, or add some color pop. Just have fun with it!
~Hollie
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I'm hourglass, honestly I've learned how to dress my body shape from experience! Most stores don't
ReplyDeletemake clothing for hourglass ladies! Shirts that fit me in the bust are too big in the waist area! super
frustrating!
Natasha
A Modest Fashion Blog:
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Thank you for this - we all have our insecurities but fashion is too fun to let those insecurities get in the way of looking fabulous. It's nice to get reaffirmations from others in the bloggersphere:)
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I don't know what I am?! I'm pretty petite,but I do have a bit of a belly. I want to know what looks good on me! (:
ReplyDeleteI'm petite but curvy and I consider myself to be more of an apple. If you hold your weight in the belly mostly (I do!) then perhaps you're an apple. If you hold it in your booty (junk in the trunk!) then you might be a pear.
ReplyDeleteRachel, I am like Laurel, all of my weight is in my gut! If you have a belly, you are going to be more apple-shaped.
ReplyDeleteHourglass!!! A large hourglass, but still. Pretty proportionate body.
ReplyDeleteThis was such a wonderful post. Thank you so much, Katie!!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty sure I'm somewhere in between pear and hour glass :P I loved this guest post!!
ReplyDeleteI used to be a scrawny hourglass, but am more of an apple right now after 3 pregnancies... trying to get back in shape!
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ReplyDeleteThank you Cecilia :)
ReplyDeleteLucky!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you! I'm glad I could be a positive voice out there!
ReplyDeleteI know that eloquii ( the new line from The Limited-) has specific fits for "Curvy" (hourglass) ladies with fitted waists, but shirts are another thing!
ReplyDeleteI do love tights! Definitely a wonderful accessory!
ReplyDeleteI like your break down on body types.
ReplyDeleteIts so important to dress in a way that flatters you figure; thanks for the breakdown.
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